Stay off your husband's rollercoaster. He is going through many things and Satan is trying to get you back on in order to destroy what the Lord has started to rebuild.
As much as you want his actions to be the way that you want them to be, it is not time for him yet. The Lord has not finished his work in him and you must continue to pray for him.
He is being pulled in two directions. One is by satan and one is by the Lord. Remember, this is a spiritual war that your husband is going through. You must continue your prayers and believing in what the Lord is doing. Reread those books that you haven't gotten from Rejoice Ministries and get into the Bible.
You are his rock right now and needs you to keep praying for him. This is a battle that he can not win on his own. You have to be like the silent partner for him right now. I know how hard limbo is and I know how frustrating it is, but you have to do what you can and you can pray. You can pray harder then you ever have before.
Just because he is home, does not mean the battle is over. Satan is going to fight harder then what he was when he was out in the pigpen of life. He had him when he was out there, now he doesn't have that same hold, but he is trying to get it back.
