I'm also rooting for you - and think 'Jim is great!' Lovely that you're planning a trip with the kids and deflecting the 'can you cope' worries.

Your W still perplexes me a little - in that there's no good reason for her to be so averse to simple 'passing the time of day' convos. But best for me not to wonder about that! Time will tell.

Is W happy in her new life? Well she's clearly presenting 'happy' to you. But we know the 'arc' of most A's and the stats are not in W and OM's favour.

But best not to wonder about any of this, and carry on being fabulous Jim, whom we've all grown so fond of.

ps. I'm glad to see you're still following me about and agreeing with me - I like that in a man! grin

Last edited by Toots; 04/07/15 05:08 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus