Excellent point. I don't think she really does. She probably even thinks we can be 'friends'. What can I do?
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
Excellent point. I don't think she really does. She probably even thinks we can be 'friends'.
In 11 years and over 25,000 posts on this forum, I have yet to see a marriage come back from infidelity without the wayward spouse credibly fearing that they'd gone too far, and were losing (or had already lost) their betrayed spouse. Not long-term, anyway (I've seen some false reconciliations that didn't "stick").
What else can I do Starsky to show her she's lost me?
I don't look back - we are in D proceedings- she had moved out- I do known thing with me and kids - travel, take trips, all of which I would have never done before.
I think she knows she's gone too far but really is too entrenched to back out now.
I guess I will just keep on keeping on - trying to build a better me . If she notices it not , if she thinks she's really lost me or not.
What else can I do Starsky to show her she's lost me?
I don't look back - we are in D proceedings- she had moved out- I do known thing with me and kids - travel, take trips, all of which I would have never done before.
I think she knows she's gone too far but really is too entrenched to back out now.
I guess I will just keep on keeping on - trying to build a better me . If she notices it not , if she thinks she's really lost me or not.
Is this right?
Ignore her. Don't worry about what she thinks. I wouldn't go out of my way to make sure she knows, because that is trying to get her attention.
