Wife having emotional affair 5

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MCS I'm happy that I actually helped. If you have ever read the picinic analogy. Find it and read it every day! It's helped me more than you can think with detachment.

Like right now, Im just mind boggled to what is happening with my WAS. I know what is going to happen before she does. She is going to take this money and run. Pay her bills, find a place for her and the kids. OM is going to come back leatch off her more. Kids are going to act different to him. Because kids aren't stupid and they know why mommy can't move back with daddy. Family and friends will disown her because she went back to him. After she proclaimed to every one that she is done with him and was thinking about our marriage again and how much he controlled her and all the pain she is in. She was just reacting to the situation. Yes I'm sure a part of her wants us to work but she can't give up the addiction and she is unsure about all my changes(if they are big enough). So back on my picinic blanket.

But the only thing I'm struggling with is how I act right now. I have been flirting and stuff. Should I stop all that and go back to a couple of months ago where I didn't even acknoledg her except to say hi?

Struggling!

3kids