Like you, I was feeling a little lost this morning. And a few people helped me feel better. So I went on to spread some good on the BB, unfortunately, that did not happen.
Sorry this whole thing made you feel even more lost.
But, goes to prove that people should find out what someone "means" when they post things, before they jump. This is what happened and before we all knew it, there were hurt feelings.
I'm glad you called your H! You should! You are still in the "back off" mode. And you don't need to be! There is no harm in calling and uplifting your H and you! Go girl!