You have a great a life, working at a country club. Maybe when I retire. My S4 will be starting high school about that time and it would be nice to work part-time and golf the other time. Need to keep on eye on that boy.
The "choosing to love" concept was new to me not too long ago. It took a lot of soul searching/pondering for it to finally make sense. When we say it to another person, unless they already know this, it will take them awhile to figure it out, too.