You will get some more responses in that time, including one from me.
Cadet,
Just to clarify, I sent this email in February, 5 weeks after BD.
I was debating sending another email now. However, after reading this recent email, I have decided against it. There's nothing to be said that hasn't already been covered. My fear was that she doesn't know my true feelings. She does know them, and her actions indicate that she still wants divorce. She brought her process server to our joint financial meeting to serve me divorce papers, for crying out loud.
I am now doing my best to accept the inevitability of divorce. I am trying to detach and am remaining dark and NC. I am working on myself and my issues, and doing GAL activities. That is all I can do at this point.
As I said in email, I cannot be her friend. At least not right now. I don't want to be her enemy either. Recently, I have been completely dark and NC, except for emergencies. One of the dogs got hurt, and she asked me for old pain medicine, which I gave her. She texted "Easter" to me at 11:00pm on easter, but I never responded. Not sure if I should have?
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
