Those are all completely understandable. I had a relationship with someone who had serious monetary issues, by the end (it was < 7 months waaaaayyyy before I met w, long ago now) she'd "borrowed" close to £2k which I of course never saw again. Drugs, never had a run in with anyone who I knew took anything bar prescribed for a reason stuff and as for animals, I dont think I could ever even be around people who dont like *an* animal of some kind, cat, dog, giraffe (well maybe not as a pet) shows a level of empathy.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015