Wond, You are so right that we don't know what we will do until in a situation. We used to laugh and tell the kids that we'd never divorce. It would be 20 paces on the front lawn. My oldest mentioned that to me a while back. I just laughed and said, you never know what you will do.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.