Can you remind me why you went so long between contact? If I remember correctly, didn't he suggest it?
Well, most advice on here is to not make contact. Now I suspect I may have had an easier time with NC than others without kids (read: I'm stubborn) and so days easily turned to months. There were a couple of times I reached out via text but that resulted in a non-response or decline for further contact. I've mostly let H do the driving.
Originally Posted By: Calibri
Address with him or yourself?
Ha! The letter is drafted but not sent. Nah...I was mostly meaning me. Went to yoga tonight and reminded myself why I started in the first place.
Originally Posted By: Calibri
So, having thought over things, is there anything else you'd want to do, or do differently? I'm a no regrets type gal -- so I always think that way. Are you at peace with it all should the path continue this way?
No I'm not at peace with it but I don't think I have many options left, do I?! I did draft a heart felt letter but I just don't get the impression he's open to hearing my perspectives. Maybe that will change, maybe it won't. I'm off to Tanzania next week so most likely will do nada till after then. Next step will probably be to meet with a L sadly.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014