Quote: It's like a negative person trying to think positive. It's not natural and it's uncomfortable so it doesn't last for long, but with consistency you can change your thinking from that of a negative person to a positive person. I know I did it and I never thought I would be able to.
Same here, Cathy, same here!
I think your H wants to be able to make decisions with your son. Afterall, he may feel like an outsider looking in.
I'd say you, wonder and I have been going down that MLC path with our H's. I know I have grown and learned alot from all this. And I didn't even know what MLC was!
Our road is not an easy one as we all know! Detaching and watching, works, although I find I can slip a little, I still keep moving forward. I'm sure you can say the same.
