Thanks again. I dont for a second think I am even close to being "fixed". But I do feel much calmer in being able to accept the situation. I can even appreciate Toots' words that I need to respect her decision. I still believe she should have worked on it, but in reality, i don't think I would even have come this far. I had to be stripped bare before I could see some of these things. Maybe it is more like I needed to be pushed so hard emotionally that it was not such a reach after all to grasp my own "inadequacies". I dont blame her anymore. Honestly for the first time. Yes she had issues that she brought to the M as well, but I AM responsible for making her unhappy enough to leave. Who knows how any of her issues would've panned out.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015