25yearsmic, MR. Bond, thank you for investing your time and experience. I have to go to work now and tonight S10 will be here for a night. We are going to eat pizza, while watching paddington the bear. I am looking forward to this. So I might not post for a day.

Again, thank you so much. The DB concept really helped me and W warmed up a little. Then I discovered the "tough love" approach and I got confused. Then I read in two different other books, other things and it got worse. Well, the LRT worked and I mixed it up with other approaches.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out