Quote: This is your H journey and all you can do is watch, LOL!
And it's quite the experience! This morning he seemed like a little boy when he was getting ready for work! Didn't comb his hair, didn't want any lunch put his hat on and was out the door!
Quote: Your H may be home, but sometimes he is not being responsible, especially with son!
H has a Jeckle/Hyde personality when it comes to S. It's amazing to watch some days.
H didn't stop and watch a race after meeting at parents and came home. Son still hadn't take a nap, needed one. H wanted S to nap in his bed, S was having a fit and crying. So I decided S could sit with me in the chair and fall asleep. H said "why do you contradict me" "why am I even here" as I'm thinking to myself. Oh just becuase you're HERE means you get to call all the shots or maybe more like RIGHT now when you FEEL like it. I just ignored H and S fell asleep in the chair with me, right away.
Since I had to work and I thought H was going to be gone, I arranged for my parents to be with S. Since H was home, H said he would stay with S. As I'm getting ready to leave, H asks me if I'm taking S to parents?!! I said "no you said you would stay with S and S would rather be with you." H said "well I don't know if I want to deal with S" WTF!!!! It's amazing, utterly amazing the way H goes back and forth, back and forth.
H wasn't very responsive, I pretty much left him alone, he'd answer some questions, but seemed to want to be left alone.