No you mean you could spend a day DEBATING most of these things. Bottom line is if you don't change, your situation won't.
my "debating" doesn't mean disagreeing. i realise that i have to change. i am skeptical my situation with the W will or can change. my ego has been a problem for a long time. it was otherwise taken care of for the most(worst) part for the 1st six years.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
"Infant it is my instinct. I can rationalise it as catching her before its too late."
No it seems like you're trying to correct another of her "mistakes" that you perceive.
"But *rationally* I suspect this is probably not a good idea. 1: its already too late 2: she is not receptive to anything I say 3. i am not really better, i just have some more clarity about why i was an arse"
OK, your right. So does this mean I should just let her go?
Originally Posted By: MrBond
You mean why you still are an arse. Sorry but that's how you come across.
Gimme a break. it's only been a matter of days. How do you suggest I proceed?
Last edited by Pyrite; 04/07/1504:02 AM.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
