I'm glad you're reading my thread. There's much more to it then x happened, then y happened.
I really waffled back and forth between seeing what I was doing wrong, defending it because I didn't feel I had an alternative, and trying to figure out why it was so tough for me. Some of my posts are long, but there are a handful of breakthroughs that when pieced together form the solution to a puzzle. The trap I was in for many years.
Still have a long way to go, but I'm feeling more whole than I did before. I wish you the same.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15