I was home all day yesterday, called H's doctor and made an appt. for H to see him Monday. My sister suggested I call the doc's office/nurse and let them know exactly how much my H is drinking these days. I'm sure my H isn't telling the doc the truth and this info might make the doctor realize that H isn't just backed up.
Tried calling H around 5ish since he wasn't home from work yet. Friday night and his phone is off so left him a message to see if he was going to be home sooner, if not S and I were headed over to my parents to watch basketball.
We ended up staying home as my S didn't nap and the the longer I didn't hear from H the more I was ASSuming he was drinking, wondering if he'd be home, if he'd call, what would happend. About 9ish I'm dozing on the couch S is trying, finally to fall asleep on the floor.
The phone's ringing, it's H. Asked him where he was? Said he had been drinking. I asked if he was headed home. H said depends how many more stops I make. We talked about his evening, H didn't sound that bad. H said a lot of the crew from his jobsite stopped for awhile after work and then some of the guys had to go back and finish up their job. H said he was headed home and he'd see me shortly. H got home we talked a little more, H wasn't that drunk or didn't sound or look that bad. Went to bed and , afterwards H pulled me close and we both feel asleep. H in an instant. As long as H has at night, he'll never need sleeping pills.
So we wake up, S made his way into our bed early morning. So we slept in, S messed around in bed for awhile then went out into the living room. H starts playing again, we are in the process of and S comes back in to show us a puzzle he finished by himself so that ended that little trist.
My sister and her two kids, me and S, went shopping this morning. What an experience, I tell you!!! Three kids, all running, touching eveything...my Sis kept the kids distracted while I shopped a little. So it was a good morning. S is sleeping, H is out and about.