I feel for your H - I am sure that at the very least he has an ulcer and/or a spastic colon. I've had both and they are soooo painful. He really needs to see a physician as if it gets too bad, he will end up hospitalized or worse. And his own body is warning him by functioning unusually.
I am praying for you and whatever bomb you had to drop on your H yesterday. I hope you are okay with your decision.
I really feel like the two of you are at the brink of a new R. If your H can take the step needed to get help with his drinking and his health, and you can continue to be his supporter, then things will work out for you.
I am going to be on-line most of the day, so you can find me on Yahoo if you'd like. I am sorry I didn't get on here last night. My H came over, cooked dinner and then was very cuddly and frisky the rest of the night. I had to go with the flow around here....
I imagine today will be tough for your H. Does he have a funeral to attend for his co-worker? I am sure that his workplace must be a tough place to be around these days. Hopefully he will continue to reach out to you.
Have a great day!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
