Don't cry, you're doing great. It really is so hard, especially where kids are concerned as you get annoyed at either doing it all yourself or the fact that they are almost punishing and pushing them away too. I sort of went cold turkey on being in touch with him in the day. We always texted while at work, but now it's nothing- it is difficult. But with time gets a little more like second nature. I find myself quite often thinking before I speak now which is a first for me, thinking what effect etc this is gonna have on the sitch. And well done on the validating! It's especially tough when you feel you are validating through gritted teeth. Hang in there
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
