Geesh, I missed the whole thing! Sorry I wasn't there for you!
I agree with Laurie; your H is in depression, and I also am afraid for his health! The stomach problems could be anything and he needs to see a doctor!
The biggest positive I saw here was your H coming home. His phone call to you was proof that he is crying out for help! Thank the Lord he chose to call you! This means he feels a great deal for you! It also means you came through with flying colors for him, otherwise he would of went to OW!
I wish I could help more, your H needs to be saved and your patience is OUTSTANDING! You deserve your hearts desire!
Oh Cathy, I wish I could hug you! You are one strong lady!
Pray! And pray more! Your H needs all the help he can get!