Affair Over but Stuck

[Zues126]

I think that looks reasonable.

If they made a comment about how the marriage is over and why can't you accept that I personally would have to address that by saying something like:

My beliefs are that when you got married it was for better or worse. I see my wife is going through a difficult time and has made choices that are impacting our marriage. And yes, she has the freedom end it entirely. But while I can't deny my role in the breakdown of our marriage, I am not going to abandon it voluntarily, nor willingly participate in the destruction of our family.