Thank you for the reply. I have checked into the short sale option and it was not looking like it would work for where the house is. Really small town. I am actually working on a Deed In Lew of Foreclosure. The mortgage company that bought my loan is TERRIBLE. A nightmare to deal with.
Everything you have said makes perfect sense. I started doing exactly this same thing recently. I don't say anything about her job. I let her do her thing with it. I am also letting her be responsible for how it is affecting the kids. They are making comments " mom is probably working again". Me and the kids do alot together.
I am actually giving her job zero attention now. I have been for awhile. I do not say anything negative nor do I bring anything up. She does not talk much about it either. She is a mixed bag of emotions!! Friday was her old self, Saturday old self and fun, Sunday off in la la land and today she was crabby and would not even look at me. I do not let it bother me anymore.
Thank you for your help. I am ready and willing to learn!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
