Yup, it stands for Rising Above It - I

[kathyw]

Hi RAI, I am new here too. I've learned in the brief time here that detaching from snooping is the best thing for YOUR sanity. What do you expect to find? You already know there is an affair. All it's doing is adding to your mental exhaustion.

It sounds like you already have plenty of evidence of her irrational behavior, no sense in dragging it on longer.