she's never said that she wants a divorce. She just wants to keep her "friend" at work and me at home. perfect life for her.

She is now responding to me saying that I am done living this way and actually showing it (because I really feel it). I have been about as dark with her as I can possibly be with us both living together with kids - it is not easy.

I think a physical separation is our only answer at this point.

She has mentioned trying, coming back, MC, journaling to each other, but still hides everything from me. Still has "more than business" contact with OM.

Last edited by u-turn; 04/06/15 11:09 PM.
Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015