Mr. Bond, I have no idea what you want from me. Would you mind to be less straight with your approach? I am in a situation where I need someone who picks me up where I am and not where I should be. I am reading those books, but that does not mean that I can apply everything over night. Especially if different books offer different advice. I am a novice in this and do my best. I am not a professional, dealing with stuff like this for a long time. When I read your posts, I am afraid of asking any questions.
I really want to understand what is going on in her and do my part to save this marriage. That's why I am here. I am reading everyday the threads of others, read books and really want to understand.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out