I was thinking back to our convo last night and H did say that "when he's with us he's happy, but feels he might be missing something at OW's and when he's with us feels he's missing something with OW.
I guess the bottom line here is that H is really struggling right now trying to find an answer to what is really wrong with his life.
I hope and pray he realizes it's internal and that external sources are not the key to H's happiness