Focused on Me and My Son 2

[Sherman333]

Just to reassure everyone... her phone call changes nothing. I filed and at this point even if she really wanted the relationship, I still think I'd let the divorce process proceed regardless of where we're at. Be the best way to protect S7 and me.

She'd have to go to a lot of therapy just to get close to "normal". I'm REALLY not sure I'd wait, matter of fact I'm pretty sure I won't. There's a lot of opportunities out there.

I think this is just her flailing around. She's not done spinning yet and is just afraid of being alone. The SIL and BILs position is that reconciliation would just be more miserable years for me and S7. For every action there is a reaction. Her choice was to screw around and leave her husband and her son. It's on her for this. She's just having reality bite her in the A$$ a little.

The BIL (who knows her better than I do) is telling me to stick to my guns and stay ahead of her. That she will ruin me if I give her the opportunity. No mercy, just keep rolling forward. And to send the letter on the affair as soon as the ink is dry on the agreement.

I will say it was nice to tell her no and not feel influenced too much. I did my grieving a while back. Call it karma maybe?

We still have close to 180 days before the 1st court hearing anyway. We're at the beginning of the process.