Alpha, without checking back, what's the situation with your house? Do you own it or rent it? And would it not be possible for you to return there?

I lived with my parents for 5 months after BD and was glad to get my own place again. My Mum has dementia and Dad looks after her full time - it's hard work! But it was nice to help them for a while - and it's good now to be independent again.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus