Well I moved her and the kids out this weekend and cleaned up the old house for its sale today. I have never been so nervous and excited on one thing. One chapter finally closing.
The week was a long one. Mr.Bond was right. I have never seen some one change so fast in my life. From totally wanting to work on everything and telling the kids she was moving in with us. To the total opposite. We did spend Easter together. It was in the best interest of the kids. She has no home for her or the kids. And for the time being she is living with her mom in a small two bed room place. The kids are living with me and she gets visit time with them on her days. All week long I had to listen to the kids ask question after question to her and no answers. Once the oldest was packing his stuff and she told him that it all had to go to storage. He looked at her and told her nope it's all going to dads. I'm not moving it all over again and again. She looked at me and just said "your loving this aren't you". As the week went along more and more spew came at me. Especially when the daughter started sayin OM name was a swear word and couldn't say it anymore. Boy the wife didn't like that one bit. It all was very hard!!!
On the bright side I did get to see all of her family on one day when they came to help. That was fantastic! Although they were all shocked to hear that she wasn't moving into my place(that's what she had last told all them).
She just can't give up OM. That's fine it's her life.
So today house sells. And one chapter closes.
Looking to see where tommorow brings us!
Thanks 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced
