waited till I was good and calm and confronted her. She said that her sales at home had not been doing well and needed the money to pay the bills. I told her if it was this bad, why didn't she say something. She says she tried, but I would not listen. I told her, I know we have talked about how tight things were, but you never said this was what you were having to do. She said she really learned her lesson about communicating better about these things and I said I need to try and listen better. Any way the house is being foreclosed.
Now wait a minute. If this were true, why would she continue to lie (and cover herself) while you were going through everything with the lawyers and the post office ? All she had to do was speak up, but she continued playing the game.
Here's the thing, she gets off by saying she tried to tell you, and you just let it slide? You are losing your home b/c of her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
