Lol, closer. We have lived with this chaos for 17 years, and up until these recent events, we made a pretty good team. I was so proud of everything that we had gone through and still had a loving and dedicated relationship together, or so I thought.

She was the social butterfly and Pollyanna. I was the serious planner and rule keeper. Yin and yang. It worked well up until recently. Now instead of the steady planner, I am portrayed as controlling and rigid. I did all the cooking, cleaning, vacation planning, and homework over the years. She did the entertaining, and was a fun mother and grandmother.

I'm sure OP has had a great time with her. She is beautiful, exciting, spontaneous, and loves children. There's the small problem of having a husband, but she has now taken steps to remedy that.


Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15