I think you do need to stay on the topic of paperwork. Arguing your point or view is just more of the same, or a cheese-less tunnel. And pointing out all of the ways you believe he sabotaged the marriage isn't going to make him wake up and go, "gee, I was an ass to Z, let me take care of the paperwork for her."
It may come down to you having to do the paperwork to get what you want. Otherwise, it may just go round and round and round.
Why is it so important for you to have him off the deed to the house? In case he changes his mind and wants equity during the D?
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15