Thank you so much for your kind words and as usual everything you write makes so much sense.
And, this isn't familar territory, you are so right. I know it's a new R, but until OW is out of the picture completely then things are going to be slow.
I realize there is a history between the two, they are both human and H will have thoughts of OW as OW will of H.
The reason I never wanted to see OW or have anything to do with her is I didn't want to think of her as a real person, as being human.
I will pray for both of them, deep down inside I know she knew that it wouldn't last, was trying to convince herself otherwise and now she has to deal with reality. I hope that she can find the peace that I found during my H's absence. Then and only then will she find true happiness.
