Cathy, Had one of those days yesterday myself and it spilled over until today... maybe its because we have more good days than bad and the bad days really knock you off balance.
I was wondering about you and your H when I was in the shower this morning... do you think your H needs some reassurance when he asks the questions regarding "are you glad I came home" "why do you put up with me" all that stuff.
Would it be a 180 to say "H I love you, I am so glad you came home. I am really glad you are here and I really don't want you to leave again."? Just some words of affirmation? Cause it sounds like a little boy wanting to know where his momma is and if she really loves him or if she is going to treat him like he treated her.
JMHO
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
