Zelda - reflecting and grieving

[Zelda09]

GAH! Our first text argument:

H: Z, I can't file the quitclaim, I'd be liable for half the house, you file for D first.

z: You are not on the mortgage. It gives up your interest only.

H: Forgive me if I don't trust you. I'll gladly file QC after D is filed.

Z: If we file D first, there is no recourse for me to get you off that deed.

H: I'll affirm it, I have no interest in anything that isn't mine.

Z: Same. Get the QC filed and prove it. I won't ask you for anything afterward.

H:That house is yours, you wanted it, you pushed for it, I don't want anything to do with it.

Z:So get it filed.

H: Z, please reread my first text today. I'll have to pay docstamps and that isn't fair. DOn't make me do this. I will set up paperwork for you to review.

Z: It is fair. You didn't want to be in this M, you couldn't even tell me I could feel safe. I pushed for us, and you never wanted us, the dog, the house. You used me, H. You sabotaged everything so it timed with your settlement. You're free to go see other people now, so do it. Finish it.

H: I don't see it the same way.

Z:I wasn't even worth an apology for what you dod to me that night.

H: Z, please stay on the topic of paperwork.

Z: I will not do the paperwork or pay one dollar toward it. You wanted this, you can be responsible. I kept my vows and even begged you to address your temper. You had no interest. So you handle it. You can tell eveyone tht you D me. For years you were happy enough to go along with what I wanted, so now I'll return the favor.

H:You agreed we'd go our separate ways and leave with what we came in with. I'll take dog if she's too much for you though.

Z. You will not. She was mine before M, our agreement stands. You handle it though.

H: Ok.

What an asshat.