"My only concern anymore is my D14 and her safety. She has brought up some concerns to me and I need to make sure I keep her protected"

Hi Errod, it sounds like a difficult balance here. Your W probably isn't being an A star parent right now. But in the longer term, it's going to be in your D's best interests to have a good R with her Mum if at all possible. I imagine you're treading a fine line between wanting to protect your D, and helping her maintain the important R with her Mum in so far as this is possible...

Glad that things have 'clicked' for you :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus