Thanks for checking in alpha. You seem to do pretty well too. Thanks for the hint. So far no sign of W trying to provoke me or anything. Not going to play that game anynore anyway.
She's more like "frien" now. Which I have to be careful about too. I do not want to be her friend. I mean yes I do but to me that won't be enough in the long term. She might think it'll make thing easier for her. It gives her more peace of mind too. She might not realize right now that I'm not done with this M. And if she realizes this again it might get tougher again. But I'm pretty much in agree-mode and feel confident. But we will see what challenges are coming when I get my greencard in the mail...
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15