Yesterday was quite hard day for me with not being with my wife and son. She had made plans for him whitch did not incliude me. The holidays can be a depressing time when life hits you with marritial issues. I know i have to be postive and control my emotions toward her so she can figure this all out without me persuing he. I have done this for a week now giving her space she has asked for. Its still hard though, but i know i must do this.