...But most A's fizzle out between 6 months and 2 years. Why? Because they are based on fantasy, built on deceit and have no solid foundations to sustain the R when reality creeps in. Only 1-3% of A's lead to marriage, and there's a 75% D rate for those who do marry. Dismal stats if you are having an A.
Is it bad of me to take total pleasure in this statement? I want him to be miserable for the pain he's put me through.
I did add to my speech to him before I told him that I was no longer an option the reasons I think he's having the affair. I said "when you talk to her you are just "Joe Smith, interesting guy. When you are at home, you are Joe Smith interesting guy husband/father/bills/household/orthodontist appts/guitar lessons/etc."
When I said that I could tell for a brief second he was thinking about what I said, hopefully that sinks in to him as well.
Married 4/20/99 Found out H cheating 3/15/15 Me45 H48 D14 S10
