H rarely wants to take vacation with me. His hunting trips are his vacation. If H does take vacation with me H wants me to pay for it..and I don't agree with that. It's like he'll go on vacation with me, but I have to pay. His hunting trips he doesn't have a problem paying megabucks. So I feel like I have to pay him to go with me..how does that make me feel?
Quote: Maybe the next time you take a week off, first ask H if he may want to do something on that week so you can take it off. Like you were thinking of him too. He may of felt put out in a way by you not asking him and in return instead of saying how he really felt jabbed what he thought would be more hurtful to show how he felt.
I do need to consider H when making plans to do things. I do just "tell" him rather than include him in the decision making process. I do need to work on the wording.
Quote: If he is anything like mine is, he will change like night and day.
Yep..that's my H!
I called him this morning at work. He was busy, S was acting up so I had to handle him while on the phone with H. H WANTED TO KNOW WHY I WAS CALLING HIM WHILE I WAS DEALIGN WITH SON AND THAT H WAS BUSY!!
So I said I'd call H back. I dropped S off at daycare called H back and H yelled why do you call me when you're trying to deal with S. I said S was watching TV so I thought it was safe to call and then S started acting up. H said DON'T CALL ME WHEN YOU'RE TRYING TO DEAL WITH SON, YOU ALWAYS DO THIS! For one thing I don't. He was yelling at me on the phone, he's in a rotten mood, he's busy at work and so I shouldn't call him. Then why is his stupid cell phone on to begin with? If he's that busy why did he answer the phone, to yell at me!
I wanted to ask him to do something with me Friday night. He said no you said you were working so work. I then said you don't want to do anything with me then? H said you're working. I don't want to work now, I'd rather watch a basketball game with my H. I didn't know this game was on till after I offered to work. It's not my regular job so I could get out of it.
ARGGHHH..."I need a vacation from my life" heard this one on the radio this morning.
