Well,it's a mix... Of the things a person needs to be or have.
Non smoker
Non drinker/mild
No drugs
Less than 50yo

Compassion
Honesty
Some form romance
Compassion kindness especially towards animals
Knowledge of animals
Ability to keep learning flexibility of spiritual growth
Supportive (when nothing in it directly for them) just being,
Humor
Assets
Jobs
Equal r puts in at min 50% of th work

My needs feature as priority
Shared values
Problem solving skills, with a bent towards what works
Reciprocally based, not one sided.


Some of that might be better in different way and some is very simlar. Those were just the things I saw as important.

None so far have tick more than the first non smoker box and a couple of others.
To others it might be a bit too simple and other vets might have a better list or more concrete way to define.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26