Yeah, I remember that. It seemed like it was unattainable at the time, but now I'm knocking on the doorstep. So, thinking it through today and I guess I'm getting more relaxed that its not in my hands.
For example the other day, W said that she could drop the kids off on Easter and told me the time. I said I had plans and would prefer if she could drop them off later in the evening. She replied back then she'll drop them off Monday or Tuesday. This would infuriate me before (she did the same thing around Xmas) but now I'm just like, whatever.
So, I replied back the other day with a pretty long email laying out how I've been trying to communicate for 8 months now and I've accepted that this is the way our communications would be in the foreseeable future. I said that I'm going to have to make decisions based on that. Also told her that we'll not get some deductions if we file separately, but that is her choice.
Today, I sent another email saying Happy Easter and I hope the kids had fun, asked her when she was planning on dropping the kids off and also said I got a sitter if she plans to show up for taxes.
I can see that I'm just getting to the point that whatever she wants to do is fine. I'm done trying to cater to her and her feelings (I think I've said that before )
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
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