After all this time I can't imagine calling would be viewed as anything but being a caring and compassionate person. I can't imagine regretting it.

Whatever you want to do is fine. Sounds like a call could be healing for you both.

M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou