I thought everything was okay....(Part 5)

[TLEE86]

Do you remember reading somewhere on this forum that it will take WAW just as many months as you are married in years, before she starts showing any kind of change? You guys have been married for 11 years. Separated for 8months. Just food for thought..might not be enough time yet. 11 years for her to dwell on is alot of time...breathe and take a step back, regroup and keep at it.

I know exactly how you feel when you say her ups and downs are wearing you out- I know it shouldn't because we are supposed to be detached, but of course it still has an impact.