This is a crazy juggling act we're doing. One hand is trying to save our M and the other is trying to save ourselves. Perhaps the best thing is to leave it up to God and pray our butts off. I know that I have become much more spiritual through this mess. So far it has helped me with me and, maybe in the long run, my M.
I hope I'm not overstepping my bounds with the following. Does your little guy see your H treating you with disrespect? If so, I would be concerned about that.
Cathy, take care and if you want to e-mail me you can at Plumbar8@aol.
Hugs,
Mary
"God, help me keep my head up, my heart open, and know I'll always be guided along the path."