Man TLEE, I wish you were right here, but I'd be delusional to hold out any expectation of this. He's not like you in one sense - you always wanted your marriage.
1. H has been one foot out the door sort of always. Alternately 'excited' about us or feeling things were hopeless.
2. God knows he said/threatened enough about wanting to see others during our separation.
3. He runs and gives up when things are hard. And he sabotaged this anyway. So.
4. By his own admittance, he "doesn't know how to have conversations with himself." Which will not even get us one foot down the road here.
He would have to seriously develop character and responsibility, hope for his own life, for me to even entertain anything.
I do hate that he is stalling on this quit claim tho. Why on earth. Unless he's just too lazy to get it done.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
