Kramer, your sitch is still pretty new. My advice would be write out the text for the email, post it here, get some comments. Use the 48 hour rule - pen it, reflect on advice - allow 48 hours before you send anything.

I have had many urges to write emails - normally in the height of emotion. And I have often been very glad I haven't sent them....

You seem to want to act - but the truth may be you just need to wait.....

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus