It's a nightmare. Wake me up.

[BW911]

Koala..... I feel ya on the two hearts thing. One side of you wants to be hard and firm and show that you won't take things sitting down. And the other side just wants to be giving and gentle and help her in any way possible.

I wonder if its possible to be both? Be firm and supportive? But not overly firm and overly supportive so to not seem overbearing or like a weakling.