8. Do not buy gifts to make "brownie points". (Can't buy his/her love and affection.)
Alpha, make sure you see the entire sentence. If a spouse is trying to score points by buying gifts, then it's a wrong move to make.
I am not sure which rules you may be referencing about being aloof and confusing with focusing on her. Can you give me the number of the rules? It would save time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
