hehe - as much as you want really (need i say more), but i get the picture. it is very similar to mine and seemingly many others.
Hate is politically incorrect. its funny how you feel free to say it, until a time like this when it really is warranted, perhaps more than any other, and you are made to feel like you are the one who can't handle the sitch. well screw them. i dont hate you baby, i just hope you die in pain and rot in hell there that felt better. BIG problem though. keep it to yourself. good reason to detach. you dont want give her ammunition.
i am anxious enough as it is that this will turn out like i was warned to prepare for (by divorcee). she'll get the house, the kids, and you get to pay child support. watching her new family. drives me crazy!!!! objectively,if you were advising someone else, if this was business, objectivity would be the biggest strength. it's our only hope now, and i strongly suspect will only be positively reinforcing. as in detachment breeds further detachment.
what is dragging me back kicking and screaming is that i dont want to be detached. i like hating her. i like being angry. i want her to know how much she has hurt me. but you know what - SHE DOESNT CARE (my W). theres a good chance she never will.
She hurt the kids, dont you/us do the same, hey. gotta dash. cheers, P.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
there that felt better. BIG problem though. keep it to yourself. good reason to detach. you dont want give her ammunition. 